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Screening and Etiquette

Screening and Etiquette: Image

Screening

I always require some light screening info to confirm you are who you say you are, and to ensure we both feel safe and comfortable during our time together! This info will only be used to verify you and will be kept entirely confidential between me and my assistant.

ID Verification

A clear picture of your government-issued ID showing your full name, photo, and address if that's where we'll be meeting (feel free to block out any unnecessary information if you prefer).  This should be accompanied by a selfie to confirm it's really you!

Work Verification

A link to your active LinkedIn page or professional website (either of these must include your full name and a photo).  I'll also request a quick selfie to confirm it's really you!

Provider References

On a case-by-case basis, I may also accept a reference from reputable provider you've seen within the past year.  Please check in with them in advance, as not all providers are comfortable offering references.  This option is not prioritized and requires at least 48-hours notice to allow your references time to respond.

Screening and Etiquette: FAQ

Booking Etiquette

Research

Please read my ad/website thoroughly and don't reach out until you're serious about booking with me and understand my booking process.  If I feel that you're less than serious, I may require a deposit to proceed.

First Contact

In your first email or text, please introduce yourself and give me an idea when/where you would like to book.  My time is fairly flexible so feel free to offer a range of availability, and I don't need the exact address right away but I'll need the approximate location so I won't have to surprise you with travel fees later!

Tone

Keep it relatively "safe for work" please!  I'm happy to answer questions about what you're looking for but I expect you to be polite and concise.  If you want to discuss your fantasies at length prior to booking, you're welcome to book a texting session.

Timeline

Ideally, I'd like for us to commit to a date within about a dozen texts, or half a dozen emails.  Screening info, location, and availability should be sent within the first few.  If I feel that you're asking a lot of unnecessary questions, I may require a deposit to confirm your booking.

Screening and Etiquette: FAQ

Session Etiquette

Hygiene

I expect you to be squeaky-clean!  If I'm not comfortable with your hygiene, I may ask you to get back in the shower, which will cut into session time.

Donation

For private bookings, please either leave my donation somewhere in plain sight, or hand it to me directly (I'm not shy!)  If we're meeting in public, please hand it to me in a card or giftbag - or something else if you're feeling clever!  As long as it's discreet.

Boundaries

Don't be afraid to ask questions, and always take the answers to heart!  My boundaries often depend on the unique connection we have, your personal hygiene, and how much time we have together.

Reviews

After your session, if you would like to leave a review please send me your draft for approval first, as I don't appreciate overly graphic reviews.

Screening and Etiquette: FAQ
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